Sunday, December 30, 2007

Have you set the date yet?

Kanika:
Well, we had our last counseling session a few weeks ago. What a rewarding experience. James and I promised that we would submit ourselves to our counselor's before we set our wedding date. Two months (6 sessions) later and we're still together. All jokes aside, I couldn't imagine going through these counseling sessions with anyone else.

James:
Man when is the date bro? ...James....have you set the date yet? No and here is why. We just finished pre-marital counseling. My Glory and I, are so happy to have sown into this righteous process. It feels good. Pray for us as we roll into the next step. SETTING THE DATE! (Pic of us signing the completion form)

Kanika:
It seems like everything hinges on this one thing....the wedding date. Now with our counseling completed, we have been checking out some potential venues for the wedding. Gee, there's so much pressure out there to consider this or buy that. Not to mention how expensive some of these places are. Until this week I didn't know what a $10,000 minimum was. No wonder the average American wedding costs $25,000 or more. Knowing what it's going to take to pull this off is only half the battle. Determining the date will really get the ball rolling. Please continue to pray for us as we trust God on which date to choose, budgets and everything in between.

James:
Amen. I thought that getting the ring on her finger was it. Next stop marriage. Nope. there is a real, real serious step before the Ceremony, and Marriage. Anyone reading this, who is looking to get married, please have your communications together, have the issues between the two of you identified, and especially make sure you have chosen God's best for you. You will need to talk through what most people believe to be some of the most stressful of subjects, and trust us you do not want to do that with someone you don't trust, don't understand, and won't listen to you. Until next time....peace out

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